A lot of guys are caught in the dilemma of how to woo and win over a lady. Are you one of the good guys who have good intentions and beautiful plans for a lady but it seems like she doesn’t reciprocate? You plan to treat her right, spoil her with lots of gifts and …
Love
Long Distance Relationship
For the most part of my courtship with my husband, we were in different states. Actually, we have both drank of and swam in the waters of long distance relationship. When we started our relationship, we planned to see each other every month. But guess what? That resolve was tested every step of the way. …
Book Review: Love, the Way to Victory
Book title: Love, The Way to Victory Author: Kenneth E. Hagin Pages: 290 Year of publication: 1994 I have been seeing this book since I was in the University and I must say I’m a little embarrased that I am just reading it now. I should have read it many years ago but I always …
Love Has A Name
Hey guys, Let me tell you a story. It’s the story of the first guy that ‘chyked’ me. I was only 12, about to turn 13 and officially become a proper teenager. His name was Uche (never got to know his surname). He was a relative of my Uncles’ wife and we had all come …
God or Sugar Dzaddy
I remember when I finished secondary school and wrote entrance examination into the University, I went for a special all night prayer meeting to collect my admission letter from God. I was told that if I prayed long and hard enough, God would have no choice than to give me admission by force. So I …
The most important thing in life
Have you ever stopped to wonder, what is the most important thing in life? This is a big question and must be given much thought. What is the most important thing to you in life? How will you feel if you looked back and realized that you spent all your energy on things that were …
Book Review: A Marriage Beyond The Dream
She was 15, He was 17. You would say they hit it off rather too early and I think I agree. Worse still, they weren’t born again so they practically married as unbelievers. Oh, did I forget to mention? They were both from broken homes but today they can boldly say they are living the dream in their marriage- after over forty years.
Dear Bride to be
I remember the first time I sat with my fiancé in our first marriage counselling session. The Reverend gave us an assignment for each of us to write down what we wanted from the other person as a spouse, stating it clearly and starting with words like “I want Emmanuel/Chinasa to…
The Pressure To Get Married
Hey guys, I have a confession to make: I am one of the culprits on the list of people who ‘disturb’ their unmarried friends to get married. Well, I wouldn’t say I pressurize them, I only nudge and encourage them to come into this beautiful phase of life. But no matter how I sugar coat …
A Letter To Our Fathers
Some years ago, I stumbled on a post on the internet that asked the question: “Ladies, will you marry a man like your Father?” Because I had thought of it myself and my answer was in the negative, I took my time to go through the comments and over 90% of responses went South: “Hell …