Globally, one day has been mapped out in a year to celebrate women all over the world. But what amazes me is how for the other 364 days in the year, the same people talk bad about women. ‘Women are scum” “Women are materialistic” “Women are foolish”
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Shopping For Your Big Day
Hy Ladies, Pulling off a wedding ceremony in recent times is not an easy feat especially if you are not using a planner, and even if u have one, you may still need to be involved in buying things. Weddings involve the entire family, friends and loved ones, hence adequate preparation is needed. It’s a …
Dear Bride to be
I remember the first time I sat with my fiancé in our first marriage counselling session. The Reverend gave us an assignment for each of us to write down what we wanted from the other person as a spouse, stating it clearly and starting with words like “I want Emmanuel/Chinasa to…
The Pressure To Get Married
Hey guys, I have a confession to make: I am one of the culprits on the list of people who ‘disturb’ their unmarried friends to get married. Well, I wouldn’t say I pressurize them, I only nudge and encourage them to come into this beautiful phase of life. But no matter how I sugar coat …
A Letter To Our Fathers
Some years ago, I stumbled on a post on the internet that asked the question: “Ladies, will you marry a man like your Father?” Because I had thought of it myself and my answer was in the negative, I took my time to go through the comments and over 90% of responses went South: “Hell …
After the wedding
Hey guys, Breaking News…!!! Drums rolling….. I am so excited. Guess what? A lot of my friends got married this year and trust me, I loved seeing them say I DO. Some weeks ago, I buzzed them and asked them to share their thoughts about life after the wedding and they gladly obliged. So today, …
How far is too far?
A lot of times, I get to talk with friends, colleagues and people around and a prominent question remains on the hearts of many young people on the matter of sexual purity: How far is too far? Even in church, since we all know that fornication is a sin we begin to ask questions like; …
Men’s make-up kit
Guys, your beards shouldn’t look unhealthy and uncatered for, rather they should be kept neat and well trimmed like the grasses on the world cup pitch. A little moisturizer and oil will go a long way to keep them looking fresh and curly.
The real cost of those heels
Hello ladies, I bet most of us have at least 3 pairs of heels in our collection and yours sincerely is guilty as charged. It has become part of our lives so much that a lot of us wear them everyday. While there is no big deal about this, I figured out that if we …
I don’t have church clothes
I was having a conversation with a friend some weeks ago when I blurted out “I don’t have Church clothes” I hadn’t thought about it before until that moment. That was the moment I realised that I actually wore the same clothes I wear to Church to work. Truth is, this is neither good nor …
