The phase between being single and becoming a married person comes with a lot of changes and how one handles this transitioning can make or mar their relationships. A lot of times there is a debate whether to keep being friends with your single friends after you get married. People ask if it’s okay to …
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The Miracle of a New Life
Hey guys! I’ve got a big news!!! Drum rolls! Drum rolls!! Drum rolls!!! So recently, I became a mother. A first time mom at that! Truly, I cannot put the feeling in plain English language. So don’t blame me if words fail me to talk about it. I’m still ecstatic with joy and every single …
The Man That Wins a Lady’s Heart
A lot of guys are caught in the dilemma of how to woo and win over a lady. Are you one of the good guys who have good intentions and beautiful plans for a lady but it seems like she doesn’t reciprocate? You plan to treat her right, spoil her with lots of gifts and …
Long Distance Relationship
For the most part of my courtship with my husband, we were in different states. Actually, we have both drank of and swam in the waters of long distance relationship. When we started our relationship, we planned to see each other every month. But guess what? That resolve was tested every step of the way. …
Dear Woman
Globally, one day has been mapped out in a year to celebrate women all over the world. But what amazes me is how for the other 364 days in the year, the same people talk bad about women. ‘Women are scum” “Women are materialistic” “Women are foolish”
Shopping For Your Big Day
Hy Ladies, Pulling off a wedding ceremony in recent times is not an easy feat especially if you are not using a planner, and even if u have one, you may still need to be involved in buying things. Weddings involve the entire family, friends and loved ones, hence adequate preparation is needed. It’s a …
Dear Bride to be
I remember the first time I sat with my fiancé in our first marriage counselling session. The Reverend gave us an assignment for each of us to write down what we wanted from the other person as a spouse, stating it clearly and starting with words like “I want Emmanuel/Chinasa to…
The Pressure To Get Married
Hey guys, I have a confession to make: I am one of the culprits on the list of people who ‘disturb’ their unmarried friends to get married. Well, I wouldn’t say I pressurize them, I only nudge and encourage them to come into this beautiful phase of life. But no matter how I sugar coat …
A Letter To Our Fathers
Some years ago, I stumbled on a post on the internet that asked the question: “Ladies, will you marry a man like your Father?” Because I had thought of it myself and my answer was in the negative, I took my time to go through the comments and over 90% of responses went South: “Hell …
After the wedding
Hey guys, Breaking News…!!! Drums rolling….. I am so excited. Guess what? A lot of my friends got married this year and trust me, I loved seeing them say I DO. Some weeks ago, I buzzed them and asked them to share their thoughts about life after the wedding and they gladly obliged. So today, …