I said YES!

I said “Yes” to a man I thought I loved; a man that made me go nuts. I had heard people say they seek God about who to marry but when I saw my prince charming; I thanked God for saving me the stress. I didn’t need to do any ‘seeking’ or so I thought. […]

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Cohabitation: The way forward 2

In my previous post HERE I emphasized the need for all hands to be on deck to stop cohabitation. I will continue this part by first addressing the issue of fear of commitment. If I say we have no cause for fear, I will be speaking presumptuously, but the truth is that fear is not of […]

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Christianese 7

Running away from reality was one thing I was very good at. I kept telling myself that all was well even when I knew deep down that it wasn’t so. The more I thought about all that happened, the deeper the hurt I felt so I decided to sweep everything under my breath and bury […]

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Book Review: I loved a Girl

Book Title: I loved a girl Author: Walter Trobisch Pages: 124 (paper back)       This beautiful book is a private correspondence containing a story of love and its many battles in all sincerity, honesty and openness.     When Walter and Ingrid Trobisch came to Africa on a missionary journey, they met a […]

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Christianese 4

I kept struggling with the big bag I was carrying till I got into my apartment. I regretted not letting that barrow guy help me out when he offered, but it wasn’t really my fault. I had no extra money to pay him; all I had was the money for the keke driver who would […]

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